I hate that saying. It insinuates that you are manly to have done whatever it is you have done. I have been told I have balls to talk about my anxiety. As a matter of fact I have a vagina. So it takes vagina to do that. I am not a man and I dont have a penis so stop saying I have balls. How would a guy like it if I said wow you have a pretty big pussy to stand up for yourself. I dont think he would like that. Just a random thought for the day.